The state of things

[amethysta]

I'm not sure how much longer I will be able to stay in this marriage. Not only does Tom refuse to look for a job and doesn't keep up with the dishes, but he spends all night playing online and sleeping all day. The worst part is when he plays into the wee hours, gets upset about how the game is going, and starts yelling obscenities. Last night he did this on and off for about a half an hour, yelling loud enough for the whole house to hear him. The very worst thing is that my oldest daughter had a friend sleeping over. I can just imagine what she thinks now.

If any mutual friends feel like giving him a clue by four, I'd appreciate it.